By Cindy Crawfurde


Children always love to play. As a parent engaging in their plays or playing with them helps them learn new skills. Engaging them in role plays will also help them accept who they are. Sharing and playing with them always portrays great family ties. The ties become even stronger when the activity is done by both parents.

As they say charity begins at home and parents are the best teachers in the lives of their kids. Being the first teachers they care deeply about them. Influencing your kid is possible only if you spend quality time with them by playing and engaging in their activities. However, in modern day life parents do not have enough space and time to discuss or even think about them. This leads to accumulated stress to the kids due to lack of a grown up to talk to.

First when you have troubles with your spouse, avoid using your child as a go-between. Avoid involving your kid in your relationship troubles. In any relationship trouble there is always lack of effective communication. Good communication promotes, motivation, intellectual curiosity and desire to achieve. It also helps protect kids from developing anxiety, eating disorders, depression and drug abuse.

When you seek advice from your parents you find that sometimes getting advice from your parent does not match your desires to bring up your children. For instance your parents might have used strict ways to bring you up and maybe you want to be a bit liberal to your kids. So you have to come up with ways to help you bring up the child in a decent manner.

While at a tender age kids communicate through play, actions or showing emotions. Commending them when they have done well and reminding them that someone cares for them helps them grow knowing what is good or bad. They will always look upon you as a parent to give them positive information and feedback.

Another mistake that parents do while in disagreement with each other is that they pass their relationship unhappiness to their kids. This trait is not only common to parents but also to all human beings. It is a trait where every human being will look for someone to dispatch their negative emotions into.

Involving kids with your work and playing with them brings out positive emotions. Apart from enjoying the activities as a parent you will also be healed. The kind of bond developed during this time is very strong and cannot be broken. However in modern day life, keeping your kids engaged is a huge task. This is due to the evolving technology that has outdone most natural games that used to be played by kids.

In certain decision-making situations, the best interests of the child should not only be a primary but rather the paramount consideration. In other words, the best interests of the child should trump other considerations such as immigration control or fiscal constraints. One such instance is the decision to separate a child from his or her parents.

Socioeconomic status of their families has profound effects on the development of children. These effects originate at every level of the bio ecological model. In the micro system, children are affected by the nature of their family's housing and their neighborhood, and in the ecosystem, by the condition of their school and the quality of their teachers. Ecosystem influences include the nature of the parents employment or lack of employment.

Social factors also seem to affect children's understanding of display rules. For example, in most cultures, display rules are somewhat different for males and females and reflect societal beliefs about how males and females should feel and behave. Elementary school girls in the United States, for instance, are more likely than their male counterparts to feel that openly expressing emotions such as pain is acceptable

The practice is that where, following a full consideration of the circumstances of the case with particular reference to the human rights obligations. It is determined that adult persons should be deported, they will be accompanied by their kids. Exceptions to this are extremely rare and arise only where the parents have made a deliberate choice to separate themselves from their kids in an attempt to have the deportation order revoked.

Affluent parents tend to pressure their children to excel both academically and in extracurricular activities. At the same time, these parents often provide their children with little support. For example, due to the career demands of the parents and their kids many after-school activities, family time is diminished in many high-income families. In addition, because of the parents dual careers, many preteens from upper-income families are home alone after school, unsupervised, for several hours a week

Undocumented kids are also sometimes separated from their parents on child-protection grounds. Although such measures generally have a stronger legal basis than the cases just described. Some cases include court oversight and there may be evidence of discrimination.

In instances where there has been no neglect or abuse where the only basis for the child's removal is abject poverty and homelessness. Undocumented parents are unable to rely on social welfare benefits. In some cases, because of this economic hardship, their children are viewed as social orphans, separated from the parents, and placed into care.

In case your marriage has emotional, verbal or spiritual abuses protect your kids from it. Most often than not when a spouse is abusing he or she will tend to abuse the children as well. Sometimes if you are the spouse being abused it is a dilemma to protect your kids for protecting them means leaving your spouse. Leaving your spouse especially if you are a mother can bring more problems.

According to experts, moderate and authoritative modes of parenting are the most recommended since they give liberty to children. They also set limits that are not supposed to be violated by them. Those brought up using these styles hence learn to have self control and are well adjusted.




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